Princess Party

Discovering Identity and Purpose in Christ — a printable volunteer run sheet for the church to host this gathering for girls.

For parents

This Princess Party is designed to help girls know who they are in Christ and why they are here: to live for Jesus. The gathering is on 1 Peter 2:9.

Write their name on the letter from Jesus (see the sample letters at the end of this page). They read it at the table and take it home, so the Word stays with them.

For volunteers

Print this page for your volunteer team. The schedule keeps Worship and Prayer unhurried. Walk the stations before the children arrive, then pray together.

2-hour schedule

Suggested event window: 2 hours (e.g., 5:30 PM – 7:30 PM or 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM).

Heart of the evening: unhurried praise, receiving the Word, personal prayer, and kneeling before the Lord.

Before the gathering

1. Arrival & team prayer (30 min prior). Gather all volunteers. Walk through stations and pray together — not just for smooth logistics, but for the Holy Spirit to encounter every girl.
2. Volunteer modesty. Volunteers wear modest attire to serve as a living, graceful example of honoring the Lord with our bodies.

   Volunteers dress modestly so the girls have a living example, not just a line in the teaching.

3. Environment setup. Pink or white tablecloths, flowers, simple place settings, King Jesus banner, no open candles on tables, and a verified food allergies list.

First gathering — night-of walkthrough

Part I — Welcome & Care (0:00 – 0:55)

1. Welcome (0:00 – 0:10). Greet each girl warmly by name with excitement and joyful Christian music playing. Scatter flower petals along the entrance path.

   Volunteer Heart: The petals and warm welcome show that she is honored and precious to God.

2. Parlor / Pamper Station (0:10 – 0:25). Offer gentle, age-appropriate care: light nail polish, hair styling or floral clips, henna stickers, or light lip gloss.

   Volunteer Heart: This is a station of loving care, speaking affirming words over each girl while styling her hair or nails.

3. Letter at the Table (0:25 – 0:30). Seat the girls. Hand each girl her personalized envelope containing the Letter from Jesus. Give them a few quiet minutes to read it before food is served.

   Volunteer Heart: Seeing her personal name written on the letter helps her realize Jesus knows her intimately.

4. Dinner (0:30 – 0:55). Give thanks before eating. Briefly share why God cares about fueling our bodies with wholesome foods. Serve salad, chicken or fish, fruit, water, and a healthy dessert.

Part II — Worship & The Word (0:55 – 1:20)

1. Praise & Worship (0:55 – 1:10). Lead live or recorded acoustic Christian praise. If using digital music on YouTube, use songs with only lyrics and ensure ads are disabled to avoid distractions. Encourage girls to sing from their hearts.
2. The Word (1:10 – 1:20). Speaker brings a short, age-tailored message:
   • Identity & purpose from 1 Peter 2:9.
   • Honoring God with our bodies through modesty and wisdom.
   • Safe boundaries: good touch vs. bad touch, and discernment with media and friends.

Part III — Crown, Ring & Holy Spirit Prayer (1:20 – 1:50) — Invite them to the altar

1. Crowning Ceremony (1:20 – 1:30). Place a simple crown on her head and speak this blessing:

   Spoken Altar Blessing (Crown):

   “[Name], receive this crown. You are a daughter of the King of Kings, part of His royal priesthood, created to worship Him all your days.”

2. The Ring (1:30 – 1:38). Place a ring on her hand:

   Spoken Altar Blessing (Ring):

   “[Name], wear this ring as a sign that you are holy, chosen, and set apart for King Jesus in body, mind, and spirit.”

   Girls returning for a second gathering do not need a new ring unless they outgrew their previous one.

3. Kneeling Prayer for the Holy Spirit (1:38 – 1:50). Let all leaders and girls kneel together at the altar. Pray earnestly, asking the Holy Spirit to fill each girl with His love, peace, purity, and power.

   Volunteer Heart: We kneel to model reverence, humility, and genuine honor before God's holy presence.

4. Banner Photos & Dismissal (1:50 – 2:00). Take keepsake photos of each girl in her crown at the King Jesus banner. Ensure she takes home her Letter from Jesus, crown, and ring.

Second gathering

Use the same 2-hour order as the first gathering: welcome, parlor, letter, dinner, worship, the Word, crown, ring, prayer, and photos.

The Word that night is Galatians 5:16 and Romans 12:2: walk by the Spirit, and renew your mind with the Word. The Holy Spirit and the Scripture guide daily choices, thoughts, and actions. That is how they learn to turn from the flesh and walk with the Lord.

If a child already received a ring at the first gathering, they don't need another. Children who are new get a ring. As they grow, you can replace a ring that no longer fits.

Follow up with the parents. Ask them to keep talking at home about identity, purpose, and a pure life — body and soul.

Body and soul

The Lord cares about their body and their soul. In every gathering, teach that in words that fit their age. Talk about good touch and bad touch, and about being wise with media and with people.

Scripture

This night rests on 1 Peter 2:9:

“You are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God's special people, that you may proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light.”

In Christ they are:

• a chosen generation
• a royal priesthood
• a holy nation
• God's special people